I can not begin to argue with people who want to go into the unconscious bias crap. If you want to start with that, then it needs to be on both sides of ANY confrontation and not just the cop, but ERob, the wife, and from you or me etc, never ending. You don’t know the cop from Jack to assume anything other than you wanting to prejudge him, me or anyone as well. Just a silly road to go down imo.
From the standpoint of waiting, I had to wait at least that long many times. But I don’t pretend to know why the cops are sitting in their car. Maybe there was a tip or something that I am not aware of. But I am not as “privileged” as ERob to have a lawyer to call and have them investigate.
And all cops I know come to the car with their hands on their guns. I am not sure where some of you are getting stopped, but I have never had a nice cop ask me how my day is going, had anything than a stern to annoyed tone at best or gave a crap about my time.
And the Big Black Man comment is exactly what I hope a cop would say. It is an accurate description and if something happens, useful information. Should he have said, the attractive man who has nice eyes? We are now so PC that you can’t even say big black man anymore when a cop describes someone who is getting out of their car when they are not supposed to. The fact that people are thinking it is anything other than a description is actually in itself a bias against the cop or big black men.
It is just as wrong to prejudge this cops internal biases or intentions as it is to assume ERob is anything other than a big black man who lives there.
Do I wish cops were much nicer and displayed the same customer service as my local department store clerk, HECK YES!! And I am not a cop fan at all! I have never had a good experience with them and they only caused me grief.
Not only are they paid by ERob and his taxes, but they are their to protect him as well. So for sure they should be much nicer, but again, I have never had a cop be anything other than this and much worse. So to think this is anything other than run of the mill cop crap is just crazy to me.
And the fact that he can get them to cancel the ticket and give an apology just shows how money is the only privileged you need most of the time imo.