As someone who pledged a fraternity, it is NEVER that serious to go through all of this. It is ok to walk away. Poor kid didn’t deserve this and unfortunately none of those Sigma Chis will see the inside of a jail cell
I’m a UH ΣΝ '77 and I served for years on our Alumni Advisory Board. Anti-hazing is a message we have to drill into each incoming class and repeat over and over.